Wondering & Wandering with Wendy

Wondering & Wandering with Wendy is where reflection meets possibility. Here, I share stories, insights, and real-life musings about the transition into retirement -  rediscovering identity, aligning with values, and finding joy in the space beyond “what’s next?” It’s a place for curiosity, courage, and conversation about creating a life that feels truly your own.

“When an elder dies, a library burns to the ground.”

By Wendy | February 25, 2025

“When an elder dies, a library burns to the ground.” This old African proverb deeply resonates with me, especially when I think of my own parents. My dad, in particular, personified a wealth of knowledge – it’s part of his legacy. He loved to read, but more than that, he spent a lifetime learning how things…

More Than Money: Planning a Meaningful Retirement

By Wendy | February 18, 2025

When people think about retirement, their first and often only thought is money in the bank. Becoming a certified coach at 56 was a significant shift from my corporate career – one of several new skills I’ve developed “post-retirement.” Recently, my vision as a coach has come into focus: I work with individuals in midlife…

Life Lessons from a Broken Wrist: Personal Growth Insights

By Wendy | January 18, 2025

A little over a week ago, I celebrated a small yet significant victory: I managed to break two eggs without getting any shell pieces in the batter. It’s been well over a month since I’d been able to do that. Even preparing meals that required chopping felt like a milestone, made possible only by relying…

A New Chapter: Adjusting to Life’s Surprises in Retirement

By Wendy | December 28, 2024

Possibilities and Changes in Retirement I see an incredible period of possibility in the 20 to 30 years of retirement. This stage of life is marked by numerous transitions and identity shifts. Our priorities, energy levels, health, and the people we interact with daily all change. We also need to plan our finances and living…

What Will You Do with Your 25 Years? A Retirement Coach’s Perspective

By Wendy | November 27, 2024

Retirement: Who do you want to be? What do you want in those 20-30 years? Have you found joy & purpose?

This again???? Did you know that your thoughts repeat?

By Wendy | September 28, 2024

I am fascinated by the thoughts that begin as soon we wake up every morning. Have you noticed yourself start playing the same reel once you open your eyes? Do any of these sound familiar?  Do you ever think about your thoughts? We have tens of thousands of thoughts every single day and about 90%…