Wondering & Wandering with Wendy
Wondering & Wandering with Wendy is where reflection meets possibility. Here, I share stories, insights, and real-life musings about the transition into retirement - rediscovering identity, aligning with values, and finding joy in the space beyond “what’s next?” It’s a place for curiosity, courage, and conversation about creating a life that feels truly your own.
My Anger Hit Quickly and Stewed
I got into a bit of a screaming match with my husband last weekend. Ultimatums do not sit well with me, and I fired back. Anger isn’t something that flares from me very often so maybe I was overdue. And when it hit, it hit fast and furious. I spewed sharp retorts, thought You are so wrong, and then…
Helping Became An Overwhelming Habit – Reclaiming My Time
The Return of an Old Habit As a woman of a certain age, I have an elderly parent and adult children. Over the last month, I found myself in an internal battle about where my responsibility ends and theirs begins. I’m exhausted after going several rounds – well, with myself. No one has specifically asked…
“When an elder dies, a library burns to the ground.”
“When an elder dies, a library burns to the ground.” This old African proverb deeply resonates with me, especially when I think of my own parents. My dad, in particular, personified a wealth of knowledge – it’s part of his legacy. He loved to read, but more than that, he spent a lifetime learning how things…
More Than Money: Planning a Meaningful Retirement
When people think about retirement, their first and often only thought is money in the bank. Becoming a certified coach at 56 was a significant shift from my corporate career – one of several new skills I’ve developed “post-retirement.” Recently, my vision as a coach has come into focus: I work with individuals in midlife…
Life Lessons from a Broken Wrist: Personal Growth Insights
A little over a week ago, I celebrated a small yet significant victory: I managed to break two eggs without getting any shell pieces in the batter. It’s been well over a month since I’d been able to do that. Even preparing meals that required chopping felt like a milestone, made possible only by relying…
A New Chapter: Adjusting to Life’s Surprises in Retirement
Possibilities and Changes in Retirement I see an incredible period of possibility in the 20 to 30 years of retirement. This stage of life is marked by numerous transitions and identity shifts. Our priorities, energy levels, health, and the people we interact with daily all change. We also need to plan our finances and living…